stevie_r
Tour Winner
How the feck can the intent be worthless. So, if somebody says something completely innocent, but some moron takes offence, then the moron is right? The intent is just as valid as the way it is received. A person can still apologise for the fact that it was taken (incorrectly) as an insult, but they are apologising for the fact that there was a possible mis interpretation, not the original comment.
Sorry stevie, but your post is ridiculous.
bluewolf - given that I have previously worked in a EO position and am professionally qualified in that area I can assure you that you are wrong, the fact that you feel it ridiculous doesn't make you right unfortunately.
Let me give you another example, I'm off to a football match this afternoon, whilst there should i refer to the head of someones religion as being a baldy ex-nazi I leave myself open to ejection from the ground, possible life ban from the ground and potentially arrest. Whether or not I actually mean, whether or not the person i make the remark to is offended and regardless of whether i immediately apoligise or not.