phillarrow
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OP. You’ve worked hard at your game and scoring 77 or better is good golf. They don’t need to play technically great golf to beat you. That’s what is mentally difficult, when you play a hole really well but lip out for bird, they scab a couple and hole a lucky par and win the hole with a shot. As many as 10 times. ? Or you’re playing good solid GIR par golf and cant get get a win because they’re shooting ropey bogey after bogey.
I get exactly what you’re saying. How do you raise your game when you’re already at capacity and the oppo doesn’t feel like he’s playing the same game or course with all his shots? Welcome to singles handicap golf as a lower handicap. It’s not the same as someone off 14 giving someone off 24 ten shots. The 14 handicap could play bogey golf and win. You have to play par golf or better most of the time, there’s far less room for error. You wont get many lucky birdies in a season not mind one match. Anyone saying that’s just what you have to do cos you’re lower is saying “that’s your punishment for being good at the game”. Hardly a fair argument.
All I’ll say is if they’re not cheating (I.e. deliberately playing to a higher handicap than they need be), then if they beat you, take it on the chin. And think about playing scratch golf somewhere. I have no words of comfort if they’re cheating or WHS is giving them far more comfort room than they need. Last year was rough for the low men in our club. Hopefully things will start settling out this year and we just need to worry about the new entrants who aren’t getting cut quickly or at all thanks to the foibles of the new system.
Eh? The whole concept of a handicap system is to allow competition between people of different standards on a fair basis!