SwingsitlikeHogan
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My Mrs is inheriting a nice amount from her mum. One big question (we are mulling over many) we have is around us doing a deed of variation to her will to gift money to her grandchildren - about £20,000 each.
Our daughter will use it for a deposit for a house she is hoping to buy in coming few months. Our son has very variable monthly income being self-employed yet is paying a lot each month towards his student loan (he needs to ask why so much but that’s a separate question). Do we tell him we’d like him to use it to clear his student loan - thereby removing that drain on his income. He survives OK as he is…but could do with the extra each month…and we fear he is liable to burn off the £20k if we just give it to him to do with as he wants (has track record of what happens when we give him money is poor). A alternative would be to put it towards as SIP we want to set up for him - that he can then contribute to when he is able. Clearing his debt feels like what his nan would want…but is it the right think to do.
Our daughter will use it for a deposit for a house she is hoping to buy in coming few months. Our son has very variable monthly income being self-employed yet is paying a lot each month towards his student loan (he needs to ask why so much but that’s a separate question). Do we tell him we’d like him to use it to clear his student loan - thereby removing that drain on his income. He survives OK as he is…but could do with the extra each month…and we fear he is liable to burn off the £20k if we just give it to him to do with as he wants (has track record of what happens when we give him money is poor). A alternative would be to put it towards as SIP we want to set up for him - that he can then contribute to when he is able. Clearing his debt feels like what his nan would want…but is it the right think to do.
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