But I do not recall much discussion at all about not re-engaging with the EU after we had left. The electorate DID NOT vote to leave and not re-engage - they voted to leave the EU and I suspect most expected some form of re-engagement. But the snake-oil salesmen have convinced a large part of the electorate with their weasel words. And that is - in my opinion - disgraceful, and May is right to be standing up to these charlatans, chancers and ideologues.
I seem to remember lots of discussions about continued trade, tariffs, free ports, Norway deals, Canada deals.
I haven’t come across any Leaver that voted with their eyes closed. The snake oil salesmen have used what words, have convinced them of what?
As as for the charlatans etc, all I see are politicians standing up for what they believe, and in some cases having more courage than May when it comes to telling the EU to negotiate in good faith.
Your interpretation is a bit extreme to say the least. The sky isn’t going to fall down.