Robobum
Money List Winner
I've just read all the postings on this thread and am quite amazed at the stereotyping of members, presumably by non club members, of every golf club in the land!
Our club has just short of 600 members, is in mid Kent, costs £1,000 per yer and the members that I see every time I play vary right across the spectrum. Yes, it's predominately older people because all clubs I've ever been to have an average around 55. The fact is that every club has a mix of people arrogant, rude, bossy, opinionated through to the nicest that you would ever meet but if you went into a supermarket, football crowd or a hospital (pick your own place) you would find the same mix of people. We can all point to old duffers who moan their way through life and tell juniors off, they do it at home too, it's not a golf related issue I help run a large football club and it happens just the same there.
The fact is that gof is priced what it is because clubs take the running cost, devide by the number of members it attracts and that comes up with the subscription cost. I pay £1,000 and play, on average, twice a week the basic cost per round is £9.61 per game, if I go to the nearest pay and play, two rounds a week (without any offers) would be approximately £60 per week. For that reason I join a club with the added bonus that I get a proper handicap and get to make a lot of lasting friendship and always have someone to play with.
I do firmly believe that dress codes need to be kept modern and relevant and seeing the odd player in check plus fours with long yellow socks looks faintly ridiculous to me as is no jeans in the clubhouse, but, if the average age is 55, the members don't want bare feet and cropped beach wear so tend to maintain the status quo so that we don't drift into the unacceptable. There I, however, golf wear that suits all ages and no 20 old need dress like a 70 year old.
Most of the issues on here relate, as I read them, to odd, one off bad experiences and are not what I see at my, quite ordinary club - yes there are arguments, odd idiots, entrenched views etc but I suspect that mirrors everyday life at work and everywhere else and is not in anyway exclusive to gof club membership!
Great post, brilliantly summed up.