Pro Zach
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It is impossible to cheat if what you are doing is within the bounds of the rules of whatever you are doing.
If the Rules of Golf said I was allowed to kick your ball into every ditch we came to I would not be cheating if I did it.
By this definition of cheating you are correct. I will try to use your statement of kicking the ball into the ditch to explain what the hell I'm talking about.
If a rule of golf allowed you to kick an opponents ball into a ditch but didn't allow him the same courtesy, would you do it?
I think most golfers wouldn't. They would immediately see that a rule that allows them to do something, but not others, is unfair. I think if you did it because it is in the rules, and therefore not cheating, you would still feel like you cheated because it would still seem unfair.
I don't think there are any rules of golf like this. The rules of golf are the same for everyone.
But the handicap does not treat everyone the same. If you play a scratch golfer you are allowed to take 7 shots off your score and he isn't allowed to take off any. This is unfair because it treats you both differently.
The thing that seems to make me odd is that I do see the unfairness of handicapping. If I play a scratch golfer I am allowed to take 13 shots of my score and he isn't allowed to take off any. To me this feels immoral, unfair and feels like I'm cheating. There is nothing in my head that justifies me doing this. It is not his fault I am crap at golf. Being crap at golf is my responsibility. I admire the hard work that he has put in to become a scratch golfer. If he can beat me while playing to the same rules he deserves the trophy. If I ever manage to beat him playing to the same rules then I deserve the trophy. If I never get good enough then I can live with that. But I struggle to live with playing by different rules so I can steal the trophy. The idea that I am allowed to take an advantage to make it more fun is ridiculous to me.
I'd prefer to come second last on a level playing field, were the rules are the same for everyone, than come first because the rules advantaged me.
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