Foxholer
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You could do much better if you 'lose that attitude'! But handicap golf can be comfortable for those who don't want to challenge themselves! And attitudes to golf and your (and others) handicap(s) is often a reflection to your entire personality! Donald Trump is a classic example!Complete opposite. I'm more scared of trying to make changes that don't work out and my game goes to total rat turd and I can't break 100 anymore. You hear stories like that. Ultimately I don't want to ruin my enjoyment of the game, that's all. But I'm sure that's only in rare cases.