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First club interview...

To many clubs stuck in the 1920s. I just want to pay my subs and play golf.
 
I'd feel much more confident that the club that interviewed me was still going to be around in a few years time than another club that were quite happy just to take my money "willy nilly"....
It's the older, more established courses that go to the trouble of interviews.
Natural wastage sees the membership diminish, older members either giving up the game or passing away.
There always seems to be a better atmosphere at the more established clubs.
I've visited plenty of newer clubs where the bar has been empty, people just turn up to play and then pack their clubs in the car and drive home again.
That isn't a "club"....it's a golf course.
There is a difference.
 
Both propriety business run by, in my humble opinion, idiots. The amount of times I saw John berating the CRGC members who were basically paying his wages and telling them that if they didn't like things then to leave. Which people did, hence it went bankrupt and shut.

No argument from me. I did half a season at CRGC back in about 2003. I cut my losses and moved back to Gathurst sharpish..
 
No argument from me. I did half a season at CRGC back in about 2003. I cut my losses and moved back to Gathurst sharpish..

I was born and bred 100 yards away from the 7th tee, did several years there. Could have been a nice club if wasn't for him and his mrs. Still get to look over the 6th green and 7th tee every week whilst watching Charnock footy.
 
I was born and bred 100 yards away from the 7th tee, did several years there. Could have been a nice club if wasn't for him and his mrs. Still get to look over the 6th green and 7th tee every week whilst watching Charnock footy.

Nice little football pitch there. My lads played on it a few times. Agree it could have been decent, but they did absolutely nothing to improve it once it opened. Shame really.
 
So who here would turn down the chance to join somewhere like Berkshire , Sunningdale , Wentworth , Walton Heath , Woburn etc because you would have to wear a shirt ,tie and jacket to have an informal chat

In fact I'm guessing some would turn down the chance to play Berkshire etc because of the need to wear a jacket and tie for food afterwards ? Or even societies who have a shirt and tie for meal afterwards or club games ?

Didn't Imurg cover this succinctly? Clubs like you've defined are based heavily on the traditions they have and of course I'd expect to wear collar and ties for these venues. Going to the Berkshire is different and jacket and ties for a meal is in their dress code and nothing to do with dressing to attend an interview to join
 
Didn't Imurg cover this succinctly? Clubs like you've defined are based heavily on the traditions they have and of course I'd expect to wear collar and ties for these venues. Going to the Berkshire is different and jacket and ties for a meal is in their dress code and nothing to do with dressing to attend an interview to join

I thought Phil was on your ignore list?

The school yard squabbling between you two is pathetic, but I would say it's mainly 70% from you
 
I am a Member at Parkstone GC here in Poole Dorset , Its a great golf course in better condition then every course i have played this year , not played on better greens . When I joined i had an interview with the club manager , then my details were posted on the board and i had my play in with 3 members , something i have done for others since , after all that i had a interview with the capt and Vice capt over coffee as we were all going out to play and we were all in golf gear . simple and there is a £2000 plus joining fee and we got a waiting list that`s a year long at the moment which speaks for itself . Anyone on here is welcome to come down and i will signed you in for a game . :)
 
I thought Phil was on your ignore list?

The school yard squabbling between you two is pathetic, but I would say it's mainly 70% from you

Wasn't aware I was squabbling but thank you for your opinion. I just thought it was interesting LP listed a number of to end clubs steeped in tradition where I'd fully expect collar and tie and that Imurg had already covered the point. I don't think the reply was incorrect as the collar and tie is Berkshire dress code and not involved with membership requirements. However I do take your point even though in my opinion it was discussion not squabbling
 
Joined a new club today, emailed my application last week, rocked up today, payed subs and played golf. Exactly as it should be.
 
No. It's exactly what you want it to be. Others want something different. It's called choice.

Yeah everyone wants to be recomended, 2nd'd and have 2 interviews in ordr to hand over a grand of their money...
 
My club is a members club and if you want to join you go through the process, as Smiffy did at Cooden. The current members want their representatives to explain the fees the way the club works, find out about the prospective member and about their golf, the dress code etc. It's fairly informal but, unlike some posts, you are not a customer, you are wanting to join a private club and you need to know the way it works and they want to know what sort of person you are.

At that point, an applicants name is posted on the notice board and members can, if they wish, put a case for not allowing a person membership. This rarely happens but I've seen it on the very rare occasion and is a valuable safeguard for the good of the members and the club
 
Any club worth joining has some kind of vetting process in place. IMO

Plenty of clubs round here that used to have waiting lists, joining fees, interviews etc.

Not so many now though,
 
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