Do you avoid "inferior" players

Specifically how though?

In the same respect I can watch Sky 4 all day long and expect to be a better player? They are good at their "own" game, you trying what they do could make things worse if you just applied a bit here and there from different folks?


Often the choices they make when in trouble are very educational. e.g. I recall playing with a guy off 1 who had a poor-ish but not terrible lie in the light rough. He poked it out with a wedge when I'd have probably tried to reach the green with a 6 iron. Since he's so much better than me I definitely expected him to try for the green. He nearly made par and made an easy tap in bogey - so not ideal but a recoverable mistake for him. You can learn from what they don't do as much as from what they do do.
 
A golfers standard (and I hate the use of the word inferior) to me is much like how they are dressed, I don't give a rats ass as long as they are decent company.
 
Specifically how though?

In the same respect I can watch Sky 4 all day long and expect to be a better player? They are good at their "own" game, you trying what they do could make things worse if you just applied a bit here and there from different folks?
You get a lot more out of watching golf live than on television, being close to the players, watching their course management & just taking in the tempo of their swings. Also if, like me, you have friends who are good teachers, and some are excellent, a round is like having a 4 hour playing lesson.
 
I also find you can get in the slip stream of someone playing good golf.

They are usually teeing off first and by putting the ball where they are you won't be far off.
 
I also find you can get in the slip stream of someone playing good golf.

They are usually teeing off first and by putting the ball where they are you won't be far off.

I'll tee off with Dustin Johnson and Bubba Watson then, to help me squeeze and extra couple of hundred yards off the tee!

I agree with you though!
 
I'd never avoid a game with anyone. If there are issues with slow play, ettiquette then I may reconsider going forward. Fortunately that has only happened a couple of times in 30+ years of playing
 
Played today with 3 ladies - all high 20's handicap-wise. All very good company and we had a great time even if the golf wasn't so great at times. One said to me "here we go gradually working our way to your tee shot - more frustrating for you than us" and I replied "not a bit of it - no rush" which I meant. Booked a tee slot for Thursday and a 36 handicapper was in the shop so asked her did she want to join us so she is.

It goes the other way for me and high handicappers reluctant to play with me - until they do and realise I'm not an ogre and they won't feel intimidated or inadequate. Best compliment I ever get paid is when some of the older, highest handicappers seek me out for a game.

Now there's a thing so let's turn the tables and ask the question, As a high handicapper do you avoid so-called "superior" players? which as a high handicapper I'd have to give a "yes" as the answer !...
 
A golfers standard (and I hate the use of the word inferior) to me is much like how they are dressed, I don't give a rats ass as long as they are decent company.
Couldn't agree more as to view another person (golfer or otherwise) as "inferior" to yourself is just a piss poor display of arrogance in my view and I for one wouldn't wanna play with the offender anyway !...
 
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A while back 3 off us had our name down for the mid week medal but on the day one of the guys couldn't make it so took his name out the time sheet, anyway we both turned to find out someone had put their name down to join us. The guy was okay after having a chat with him before we were due to tee off, he was playing off 10 so we thought okay it might not be as bad as we thought, well how wrong we were. Nightmare right from the go, spent most of the day looking for his ball......never again. We always check out the handicap if someone sticks their name down & if they are not playing off at least 7 we give them a wide berth & withdraw from the comp as its not enjoyable & to me golf should be enjoyable.
 
I would play golf with anyone regardless of whether they live in Bexhill or not :D

I think that being as crap at the game as I have become a lot of people will (if not already) avoid me.
 
A while back 3 off us had our name down for the mid week medal but on the day one of the guys couldn't make it so took his name out the time sheet, anyway we both turned to find out someone had put their name down to join us. The guy was okay after having a chat with him before we were due to tee off, he was playing off 10 so we thought okay it might not be as bad as we thought, well how wrong we were. Nightmare right from the go, spent most of the day looking for his ball......never again. We always check out the handicap if someone sticks their name down & if they are not playing off at least 7 we give them a wide berth & withdraw from the comp as its not enjoyable & to me golf should be enjoyable.

Ouch... unlikely to win you many friends.
 
I do try to avoid Lincoln Quaker but he just keeps coming back. :D

but surely it is a good regular income playing Glyn ?:whistle:
Oi, bugger off, this is about inferior players, he is just relying on his fake handicap, once he gets a proper handicap he will be back to helicoptering his club and chucking his toys out of the pram again.
Week on Saturday birchy :D
 
Club selection, it's against the rules to ask what club they are using or to look in their bag to see what club someone is using is it not ?
It's a penalty if you ask, but not if you look in the bag, as long as you don't move a towel or something else which is covering the clubs to see what was used.
 
A while back 3 off us had our name down for the mid week medal but on the day one of the guys couldn't make it so took his name out the time sheet, anyway we both turned to find out someone had put their name down to join us. The guy was okay after having a chat with him before we were due to tee off, he was playing off 10 so we thought okay it might not be as bad as we thought, well how wrong we were. Nightmare right from the go, spent most of the day looking for his ball......never again. We always check out the handicap if someone sticks their name down & if they are not playing off at least 7 we give them a wide berth & withdraw from the comp as its not enjoyable & to me golf should be enjoyable.

Were you ok with him searching for your ball on any occasion you needed help ?

It's really disappointing to read that story - even more so you pull out of comps based on fc HC - it's HC snobbery
 
Were you ok with him searching for your ball on any occasion you needed help ?

It's really disappointing to read that story - even more so you pull out of comps based on fc HC - it's HC snobbery

Never need help TBH.

Why is it snobbery ?


I play golf to try & improve my game & at the same time enjoy it. I don't enjoy looking for someone else's golf ball all day & if I want to withdraw from a comp then that's my choice is it not ?
 
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