Sats
Challenge Tour Pro
Recently had two friends have had a blazing row over cheating. One claimed the other has deliberately changed scores on the score card and dropped balls in a competition (when presumed lost.) However, the other vehemently denies the allegations and unintentionally entered the scores wrong and didn't drop a ball . Anyway this ended in a sod you/sod you situation neither willing to actually sort it out. I'm stuck in the middle and I don't want animosity within our group - I spend enough time dealing with conflict and stress at work and don't want to deal with it at golf, which is my hobby and meant to be fun only.
There is no tangible evidence of cheating - only suspicion. But it's left a rift within our normally lovely group and I'm feeling the stress of it as I can see both sides point of view.
Not really sure what to do - I've suggested that the accused informs the club of the score error and get DQ/NR for it (He hasn't placed well in the comp to win etc) and to the accuser that they smooth thing out for the sake of peace. I've also said that if anyone is cheating then it's a matter for the club and integrity is paramount so don't mess it up just to not come last/win etc.
There is no tangible evidence of cheating - only suspicion. But it's left a rift within our normally lovely group and I'm feeling the stress of it as I can see both sides point of view.
Not really sure what to do - I've suggested that the accused informs the club of the score error and get DQ/NR for it (He hasn't placed well in the comp to win etc) and to the accuser that they smooth thing out for the sake of peace. I've also said that if anyone is cheating then it's a matter for the club and integrity is paramount so don't mess it up just to not come last/win etc.