SocketRocket
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There’re probably selling the TV rights to Sky, Gypsy Funerals 
Big Fat Gypsy Funeral.
There’re probably selling the TV rights to Sky, Gypsy Funerals 
Just wait until the funeral - Im sure he'll be hailed as a hero by their community, I hope he rots in he'll
They need to block the road off to stop any kind of funeral procession going past the house. Bunch of thieving nasty law-ignoring scrotes.
Breaking and entering, threatening behaviour..... ignored relation's participation in former actively participating in latter.
That'll do for now.
If not then it should have been.I was simply asking for clarification about whether the comment was in general, or specific to current events.
Because - yes - I do understand that burglary is breaking the law - but thankyou for reminding me.
The post was talking about his friends and relatives. And yes - I do know that their threatening behaviour could most certainly be construed as law-breaking under the Public Order Act - and that is why the authorities should deal with this.
But thankyou for reminding me.
To be fair, by asking the question you asked to be reminded.I was simply asking for clarification about whether the comment was in general, or specific to current events.
Because - yes - I do understand that burglary is breaking the law - but thankyou for reminding me.
The post was talking about his friends and relatives. And yes - I do know that their threatening behaviour could most certainly be construed as law-breaking under the Public Order Act - and that is why the authorities should deal with this.
But thankyou for reminding me.
To be fair, by asking the question you asked to be reminded.
I do get that you are trying to get us all to question our own consciences about an emotive subject. However, I do not believe people should be ashamed or in the least concerned that they are horrified by what has happened and in particular the way the law abiding party has been intimidated to the extent that they have had to leave their home. I do not believe people should be ashamed or concerned about their reaction to the authorities seemingly supporting the interests of the guilty party’s relatives and friends over the innocent.
These are natural reactions for any right minded and law abiding individual.
I believe that in emotive cases there is a very fine line between playing devils advocate and trolling. You seem to be questioning most people’s natural reaction whilst eventually and conveniently admitting you agree with them. This causes me to question your intentions regarding this thread.
Just my opinion.
SILH. I admire your tenacity but think you are going to struggle to win this one despite your best persuasive efforts.
However how would your position be if it was your own wife in your home and a serious attack occurred which may have resulted in her demise?
Hypothetical I know and pleased she was not involved.
I was simply asking for clarification about whether the comment was in general, or specific to current events.
Because - yes - I do understand that burglary is breaking the law - but thankyou for reminding me.
The post was talking about his friends and relatives. And yes - I do know that their threatening behaviour could most certainly be construed as law-breaking under the Public Order Act - and that is why the authorities should deal with this.
But thankyou for reminding me.
I am not trying to win anything on this.
I simply said that at the outset I was conflicted over the 'shrine' - seeing the upset it would cause to the locals, but the risk of making things worse by removing it; and the need for the bereaved of anyone to be able to grieve in whatever way they found best, and the hope in this case that by leaving the 'shrine' alone there might be some healing between the two communities.
Initially I felt leaving it might be best...so as not to exacerbate and to aid healing - but as it has become clear that continued aggressive and threatening behaviour by the traveller community has clearly made healing very unlikely - that community loses most if not all of the empathy I might have felt to them in their grieving.
But I still reckon the best approach is for the local community to leave the 'shrine' alone - as much as they might wish to rip it down and stamp all over it - keep the moral high ground and leave dealing with 'shrine' and the family and friends of the deceased to the police. The traveller community seem to have provocation of the locals in mind - and a wish for the locals to react - so have them fail in that. And the police can ensure that any funeral does not go down that road under the Public Order Act.
And hypothesising on an event that even in the reality has not happened is, I think, not that helpful. In any case - ask Gordon Wilson; Maureen Greaves; or the father of Stephen Lawrence, about forgiveness as opposed to holding anger and resentments over the murder of a close or dear one. I hope I might respond as they have done. But who knows.
3 examples of people showing forgiveness in a world full of murder doesn’t make it a usual response.
If if I could have gotten my hands on those responsible for my sister many years ago I would have. Fortunately he met his own demise.
That doesnt stop the grief for the lost loved one, but it did in my case at least offer a small ray of contentment.