If you are put off by what other players are doing (searching for balls, taking lots of shots per hole) then you aren't doing a great job of focussing on your own game. Some might argue that you are using high handicappers as an excuse.
I'd rather play and have a pleasant time with people out there to enjoy it but who still try their best to win, rather than a sulky low handicapper who thinks a monthly medal or even a qualifier is the biggest thing in the world and is surly and doesn't recognise my presence.
I'd rather play and have a pleasant time with people out there to enjoy it but who still try their best to win, rather than a sulky low handicapper who thinks a monthly medal or even a qualifier is the biggest thing in the world and is surly and doesn't recognise my presence.