After weeks of wondering this newbie finally joined Gedney hill golf club. I know look forward too many years enjoying the game. Next step is to get my handicap.
Just dive in mate and enjoy, the more you put into being a member, the more you're likely to get out of it.
And remember, most people don't give a hoot about how many shots you take, everyone is just absorbed in their own game. Most people are more interested in what you're like as a person to play with..