Swango1980
Well-known member
Anybody can be patronising. A referee can be patronising. A player who is being told the rule can be patronising in their response.They are not better, just more knowledgeable on the rules.
Maybe if they were less patronising, they might get on better
That is just an individual's personality. I doubt this personality trait is something that is required to become a referee. So, perhaps you have just come across a referee with a less than likable personality?
That being said, it is also probably natural to think of a person as patronizing when they are informing you of a rule, especially if you do not agree with the outcome of the rule? It can be a bit like "shooting the messenger". I wouldn't be surprised if many golfers think that they can somehow negotiate themselves to a better outcome, and start to get annoyed when the rule (and the referee doesn't allow it). And I wouldn't be surprised if experienced referees start getting tired when non-expert golfers start to argue their cause, despite the fact that the referee is the one who has got all the qualifications on the matter.