I have been trying to retire for a number of years but have bottled taking the final step every time... Have attended a funeral of a couple of good mates the week before and the week following Xmas.. Two good people who were only a few years ahead of me... One of my friends suggested I adopt the view of ceasing work as being unemployment rather than retirement... A change in mind set might just help me make the decision I have been stumbling over...
I was all set to retire at Christmas 2015 but got enticed to stay on. Fantastic job opportunity and challenge but knackering and stressful. Was asked for 3 more years but offered two. The boss is now talking about 5 years, and I'm wishing I'd stuck to my original plan.
If you've got the opportunity, only you can choose but you can't buy back missed opportunities.