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Rubbernecking

I loathe the mis-use of the word rubbernecking!

If I see an accident I slow down- you have no idea whats happening, people could be running onto your carriageway to escape a pile up, a mentally unstable person could be doing similar, a stray animal (it happens- check youtube). I have seen cars come onto your side due to the accident so if you have reduced your speed from avg 70mph you can react better should something occur.

You might also be able to help!

Its up to people behind you not to run into the back of slowing cars!

Gawd help anyone needing assistance with you lot passing by at high speed and trying not to look!
 
It's not only motorways the crazy things people do are sometimes beyond belief.

Motorway driving should need a separate test much the same as towing a caravan or driving an artic.

I agree, but it's silly really isn't it, as driving on a motorway is so easy. Why is it some people just can't figure out how to drive on motorway.
 
I loathe the mis-use of the word rubbernecking!

If I see an accident I slow down- you have no idea whats happening, people could be running onto your carriageway to escape a pile up, a mentally unstable person could be doing similar, a stray animal (it happens- check youtube). I have seen cars come onto your side due to the accident so if you have reduced your speed from avg 70mph you can react better should something occur.

You might also be able to help!

Its up to people behind you not to run into the back of slowing cars!

Gawd help anyone needing assistance with you lot passing by at high speed and trying not to look!

Agree - just because I have to slow down and I may glance across does not make me a 'rubbernecker' with all the negative connotations that has. I have not slowed down to have a look.
 
Yeah, it kinda does

No it doesn't. As I have had to slow down I may look to see what has caused the hold up - natural inquisitiveness that. If as I slowly approach what I can see has been a serious accident I will generally not look as I drive past - out of respect to those involved and I don't need to know more than I already do. as CMAC says - use of 'rubbernecker' to describe anyone who has to drive slowly past an accident is simply wrong. A 'rubbernecker' is someone who will 'go out of their way' to have a look - hence the rubber in rubbernecker i.e. as if they were having to stretching their neck beyond normal to have a look.
 
No it doesn't. As I have had to slow down I may look to see what has caused the hold up - natural inquisitiveness that. If as I slowly approach what I can see has been a serious accident I will generally not look as I drive past - out of respect to those involved and I don't need to know more than I already do. as CMAC says - use of 'rubbernecker' to describe anyone who has to drive slowly past an accident is simply wrong. A 'rubbernecker' is someone who will 'go out of their way' to have a look - hence the rubber in rubbernecker i.e. as if they were having to stretching their neck beyond normal to have a look.

So you might look long enough to determine what caused the hold up but look away as you pass the still flaming wreck to your right!

But for defining the meaning of 'rubber' in rubbernecking then I have to accept you're not a rubbernecker

(although the behavior of returning again & again to an online thread is in itself a form of rubbernecking :D )
 
you assume wrong, see post #1

you say in OP "I drive through the accident area as quickly as I can" you dont say if you look or not.


I really don't understand your attitude in the OP to anyone slowing down when coming to an accident:confused:
 
you say in OP "I drive through the accident area as quickly as I can" you dont say if you look or not.


I really don't understand your attitude in the OP to anyone slowing down when coming to an accident:confused:



Re your quote of my text, I'm pretty sure my paragraph has more than 11 words in it but I'm not fussed enough to walk you through it

I really don't get why some as so intent to distance themselves from any degree of this activity. We all do it! (except SILH)

As for your bit i've bolded, I was delayed on the commute this morning due to a minor shunt that made 4 lanes come to a standstill and when passing the accident the guy in front of me was rubbernecking and it added to the delay so I thought I'd have a moan about it online
 
So you might look long enough to determine what caused the hold up but look away as you pass the still flaming wreck to your right!

But for defining the meaning of 'rubber' in rubbernecking then I have to accept you're not a rubbernecker

(although the behavior of returning again & again to an online thread is in itself a form of rubbernecking :D )

When I am in a slow moving 'stop go' queue of traffic I will look ahead to see where the problem is - and maybe see what it is as that would impact how long it would take me to get clear of it. So yes - I will look to determine what the cause of the hold-up is. And if it is a blazing wreck then as I get closer and then pass slowly by I absolutely will look away - or straight ahead. Driving slowly past an accident does not make me a 'rubbernecker' - and slow traffic past an accident is generally reported as being due to 'rubberneckers' - and that is incorrect.
 
Re your quote of my text, I'm pretty sure my paragraph has more than 11 words in it but I'm not fussed enough to walk you through it

I really don't get why some as so intent to distance themselves from any degree of this activity. We all do it! (except SILH)

As for your bit i've bolded, I was delayed on the commute this morning due to a minor shunt that made 4 lanes come to a standstill and when passing the accident the guy in front of me was rubbernecking and it added to the delay so I thought I'd have a moan about it online

post 26 and 28, I'm not sure even trying to walk you through it will shed any light so I'll move on now and let you carry on with your very serious moan.
 
When I am in a slow moving 'stop go' queue of traffic I will look ahead to see where the problem is - and maybe see what it is as that would impact how long it would take me to get clear of it. So yes - I will look to determine what the cause of the hold-up is. And if it is a blazing wreck then as I get closer and then pass slowly by I absolutely will look away - or straight ahead. Driving slowly past an accident does not make me a 'rubbernecker' - and slow traffic past an accident is generally reported as being due to 'rubberneckers' - and that is incorrect.

silh, he's not going to be happy until everyone speeds up past accidents whilst focusing on a dot on the horizon:whistle:
 
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