Joining a Golf Club

HowlingGale

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Guys, I’m just after a bit of advice. I’ve been playing a lot of golf this year. Previously I have only played maybe once or twice a year for the last 15 years or so. Needless to say my game never improved any in that time. I have been getting better over the summer and have been playing with a couple of friends who are of equal calibre to my good self. To put you in the picture I’m doing well to break 100 on a decent, long course. We’ve been regularly playing on the municipal courses once or twice a week for a few months and my game has improved a good bit. Honest!!! We have a good laugh and I don’t really feel out of place with them or on the courses.

My problem is that I want to join a club to improve my game. There’s one just up the road from me that is doing a cracking 18 month deal at the moment and I’d be a fool not to take it up. Basically it has two courses and the joining fee and first year’s subs are half of what they would normally be. I want to improve but my predicament lies in leaving behind my current golfing buddies to start at the club because for varying reasons they can’t or won’t join. A few of my other friends are members at this club but I feel guilty and embarrassed at asking them to take me round because they are pretty good golfers and I’ll be struggling to break 100. They have their own networks of friends there and I feel like I’d be impinging on them and possibly their golfing buddies. I don’t want to play on my own, as I enjoy the company, but feel I would benefit from the perfect greens, better facilities and better golfers.

My problem is that I don’t want to look like I’m hacking my way round and where I feel comfortable just now it will be daunting meeting and potentially playing with quality golfers. How do you guys feel about people who aren’t that good playing on your golf courses and sometimes playing within your 4ball or whatever? Will there be people there of a similar standard to me who just want to improve at a steady rate?
 
Join the new club and enjoy your golf there. Your friends should be ok with it and you will meet new golfing friends at your new club. You can still play with your "old"friends any time you want.

Welcome.
 
Do not worry about it, we all start somewhere and probably 90% of people that I have played with would have no problem playing with any level. I think we all had the nerves that you are experiencing. I still had them even after I had my first handicap but it does not take long to get into the habit of playing with anyone.

Sign up and give it a go.
 
Fully agree with the above.

You'll have to put three cards in for your handicap, which a member has to mark for you. Then you can start playing in the competitions - medals and stablefords. Apart from practicing, it's the best way of improving your game and of course meeting new members. And don't worry about, as you stated, not being good enough, if you can go round in a 100 that's a good start. There's always a few plus 100 scores in competitions, including from me :cool:

Welcome to the forum, and enjoy your golf. :)

Golfmmad.
 
Don't worry about it. The worse that can happen is that you'll put 3 cards in and get a 28 handicapper. The great thing is you'll meet a lot of new golfing buddies and will learn a lot about the game too. Get involved in the competitions and get your handicap going in the right direction. Everyone has to start somewhere and as long as you observe basic etiquette, play to the rules and get involved then no-one will question you or your ability. If everyone felt like you and were scared to join for fear of embarrasing themselves clubs would never get new members and some would fold.
 
Wouldnt have a problem myself. One or two things that irritate player with newbies - keep an eye where your ball goes right to the end, dont take more than one practice swing, be ready to play when it's your turn, repair your divots and pitch marks and dont say "I dont normally play like that" when you play to 10 under your handicap and take all the money!

All the best whatever you choose


Chris
 
Does it have a link? I am looking to join a club and wanted to join my local club Mount Ellen in Gartcosh near Glasgow but it is £630 and has no par 5's or practice facilities.

I work 17 miles from home and to get to my local club for 4:30pm would be tight so is it better to join a club nearer work or nearer home?
 
you don't have to jump in feet first and put handicap cards in straight away unless you want to play comps right away. they are supposed to be the best way of improving but can be daunting.

not everyone at your new club will be a quality golfer (which is only relative afterall) - there will be more than a few off 20+ and as many coming down as going up.

as a member you may be able to get your mates on at reduced rates - they'll thank you for it.
 
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