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Ultimately though we play for fun and what we shoot is pretty much irrelevant. Just a lot easier to say than put into practice 
I don't get first tee nerves or anything like that but as the round progresses and if I'm on a decent score I do have to battle with some mental demons on 2 and 3 foot putts for par. I'll get all sorts of nonsense running through my head like "haven't missed one of these yet, I'm due to miss one". I'm a bit of a basket case on the course at times, the lad I played with at the weekend said during the round "your mental game probably cost you 6 shots today" as I was explaining on my last shot I got to the top of my backswing and thought "my feet aren't far enough apart here". I basically overthink everything.It comes up from time to time how golfers feel pressure in a round.
Given that club golfers don’t have to rely on their golf to feed their family nor they represent the country at the Olympics, it’s not very logical.
Do you feel pressure in your rounds? What does trigger it for you?
You might find this video helpful.I don't get first tee nerves or anything like that but as the round progresses and if I'm on a decent score I do have to battle with some mental demons on 2 and 3 foot putts for par. I'll get all sorts of nonsense running through my head like "haven't missed one of these yet, I'm due to miss one". I'm a bit of a basket case on the course at times, the lad I played with at the weekend said during the round "your mental game probably cost you 6 shots today" as I was explaining on my last shot I got to the top of my backswing and thought "my feet aren't far enough apart here". I basically overthink everything.
The most pressure I've felt was last year when I was standing on the 18th tee level par (never shot level par in my life) and I'd just had 17 straight pars. You would think you would be brimming with confidence but I nearly carved it OB the tee shot was that bad. Luckily I hit a great approach and holed the putt for a birdie and an under par round. I've still never shot level par and with the way my game is just now I'm not sure if I ever will.
This might not help you at all, but I was surprised that it actually did help me. In the last couple of medals I've played, instead of thinking the same as what you've said, I thought to myself that I always miss three short putts in medals - so I kind of 'allow' it in a sense. So one I miss the first one I just brushed it off as "that's one" rather than beating myself up about it. But then I noticed I didn't miss anymore that day. And in the next medal round I didn't miss any short putts at all - because mentally I wasn't worried about missing them anymore since I 'allow' myself three of them. The human mind is weird, you have to trick yourself sometimes.I don't get first tee nerves or anything like that but as the round progresses and if I'm on a decent score I do have to battle with some mental demons on 2 and 3 foot putts for par. I'll get all sorts of nonsense running through my head like "haven't missed one of these yet, I'm due to miss one". I'm a bit of a basket case on the course at times, the lad I played with at the weekend said during the round "your mental game probably cost you 6 shots today" as I was explaining on my last shot I got to the top of my backswing and thought "my feet aren't far enough apart here". I basically overthink everything.
The most pressure I've felt was last year when I was standing on the 18th tee level par (never shot level par in my life) and I'd just had 17 straight pars. You would think you would be brimming with confidence but I nearly carved it OB the tee shot was that bad. Luckily I hit a great approach and holed the putt for a birdie and an under par round. I've still never shot level par and with the way my game is just now I'm not sure if I ever will.
Sorry, linked the wrong video. Here is the full discussion.You might find this video helpful.
Was about to ask why am I watching a video on heads up putting. My putting is bad but I'm not trying that.Sorry, linked the wrong video. Here is the full discussion.
ThisIt's all about confidence.
If there was a roaring river 150 yards across in front of the first tee, would you be worried about carrying it? Possibly.
Replace the river with a wide open fairway, would you be worried about hitting the ball 150yds? Probably not.
Be confident about the shot you are going to hit and the nerves will disappear.