SwingsitlikeHogan
Major Champion
When I first played with auld guys back in the day they told me the rules.Usually it is from not knowing them. Its why the average player gets so many rules wrong in a quick quiz. Many are simply innocent error, other ignorance, and other a genuine attempt at fairness but it just isnt the rule. You often see people dropping two clubs lengths for free relief. The free/penalty one lenght, two length, invites that mistake. Or similar to current thread on the rule forum, players taking fuller than permitted relief from a path - a hedge or long gross on the side they most drop to, so they circle around to some short grass to get relief. You can see their point. Or searching for a ball for a few minutes, and then, not finding it, concluding it must be in an adjacent hazard (it may well be) and so taking a drop rather than a lossed. Not to mention the nitpicking ones like ball marking, teeing outside the markers, repairing plug marks off the green, etc. Not to mention the really convoluted ones as discussed here or on other forums at times, where even rules gurus get tied up in knots. Other than academic interest, in real golf for fun, it isnt even worth trying.
I have long stopped stalling anyone doing all these things, even if I am marking their card. It just isnt worth the grief.
The rules are just too long, and too convoluted to expect the average golfer to know them. The game can be played quite, or even very accurately with just having the general idea - one club length, two club length, etc. Obviously at elite competition level, we expect it to the rules. But expecting the average Saturday golfer to play perfect rules golf is unnecessary.
But on your point, I would say most rules breaks are ignorance or obscurity of the rules. A player will naturally bias towards favouring themselves, but thats not outright cheating or choosing to break a rule.
”Put your ball on the tee and don‘t touch it again until you pick it out of the hole. If you lose it or can’t play it go back to where you hit your last shot and add 1 to your shots to that point. Drop your ball and play on and until your ball is in the hole”