aleahey
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A new golf book has come out on Amazon entitled; WHO IS HARRY BIGBALLS?
It is supposedly a fictional account of 4 lifelong friends who get together once a year to act like sex-crazed juveniles with a penchant for executing embarrassing jokes at the other's expense all in the name of golfing.
I will say the book is interesting because there is a lot of discussion amongst the golfers in regards to how men think and more importantly how men view us women from their point of view. There are some situations in the book which I found distasteful however on the other hand my husband laughed his butt off and said the author was right on in terms of how crazy women are and he didn't find anything distasteful.
In fact, we ended up discussing the relationships of men and women at length as a result of this book and in the end I actually think, oddly enough, it may help us. As an example…I never knew the 75% rule talked about in the book yet my husband knew all about it. Basically, the 75% means most men are 75% happy for the rest of their lives if they are sexually satisfied, so outside of sex a woman has to do very little to keep her man happy.
On the other hand, most women are only 25% happy with just sex and men need to work a lot harder to bring emotional happiness and stability to the lives of their women. And, I have to say, after thinking about it, the author is right on many levels with this assessment.
I would love to discuss the book more with most preferably women readers out there to hear their thoughts on the book and the author's views on relationships.
A. Leahey
It is supposedly a fictional account of 4 lifelong friends who get together once a year to act like sex-crazed juveniles with a penchant for executing embarrassing jokes at the other's expense all in the name of golfing.
I will say the book is interesting because there is a lot of discussion amongst the golfers in regards to how men think and more importantly how men view us women from their point of view. There are some situations in the book which I found distasteful however on the other hand my husband laughed his butt off and said the author was right on in terms of how crazy women are and he didn't find anything distasteful.
In fact, we ended up discussing the relationships of men and women at length as a result of this book and in the end I actually think, oddly enough, it may help us. As an example…I never knew the 75% rule talked about in the book yet my husband knew all about it. Basically, the 75% means most men are 75% happy for the rest of their lives if they are sexually satisfied, so outside of sex a woman has to do very little to keep her man happy.
On the other hand, most women are only 25% happy with just sex and men need to work a lot harder to bring emotional happiness and stability to the lives of their women. And, I have to say, after thinking about it, the author is right on many levels with this assessment.
I would love to discuss the book more with most preferably women readers out there to hear their thoughts on the book and the author's views on relationships.
A. Leahey
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