Random irritations of the day......

[PhilTheFragger]

It’s not fully hit me yet. There’s so much to do and I’ve thrown myself into that, Warzone and reading social media all day long! The funeral’s next Thursday and I think it’ll hit me as I write my eulogy.

That’s awful, very sorry to hear about your girlfriend. 😞😞

 

[srixon 1]

So sorry to hear that news Kellfire. Awful disease that takes far too many people before their time

 

[Kellfire]

I feel your pain, I've lost so many people over the years, including my 38 year old daughter in 2006 and it still seems like yesterday .
Stay strong, make her proud, but you have to let go , grieve cry with close friends., take care xx

I’m sorry for your loss, too. My Ash was only 36 and we just never entertained the idea it would be so short.

Three weeks ago we had a meeting organised to discuss one final operation that would see her in the recovery phase. Instead that meeting revealed she had metastatic spread in both lungs, her liver and abdomen. She was planned for palliative chemo but blood tests revealed she had kidney problems. One week later, she had died. It’s been an insane year and the last month has tested our resolve greatly. Her mum is absolutely beside herself and I just wish I could do something good to help. We are doing something to try and raise money for the ward that cared for her. In fact, I’m going to post that on the Things That Make You Happy thread.

 

[Traminator]

I can only echo all the above sentiments.
Really terrible to read that ☹️.

Best wishes.

 

[fundy]

Sorry for your loss Kellfire, such a sad story

make sure you take some time to grieve (and get help with it if needed)

 

[Papas1982]

Sadly yes, twelve days ago. Her treatment hadn’t worked, her cancer had spread aggressively and she developed kidney failure as a result that couldn’t be reversed.

Thats awful fella.

Genuine condolences. I hope you’ve got someone to talk too. Don’t try and do it all alone. It’ll burn you out eventually.

 

[Dando]

Sadly yes, twelve days ago. Her treatment hadn’t worked, her cancer had spread aggressively and she developed kidney failure as a result that couldn’t be reversed.

That’s awful to hear.

Deepest sympathies

 

[Kellfire]

Sorry for your loss Kellfire, such a sad story

make sure you take some time to grieve (and get help with it if needed)

My friends have rallied around me like you wouldn’t believe including offers of spending Christmas with different people. Her family have totally taken me in as one of their own, too. For that I am blessed.

I know who to reach out to when I need to - in fact, during her last few days I utilised one of the free text chat lines just to allow me to vent to someone who wasn’t there living it with us.

https://www.crisistextline.uk/

No one should ever feel ashamed to reach out and ask for help, or even just to have someone to talk to. Talking really can help focus the awful thoughts in our heads and make them more manageable.

 

[fundy]

My friends have rallied around me like you wouldn’t believe including offers of spending Christmas with different people. Her family have totally taken me in as one of their own, too. For that I am blessed.

I know who to reach out to when I need to - in fact, during her last few days I utilised one of the free text chat lines just to allow me to vent to someone who wasn’t there living it with us.

https://www.crisistextline.uk/

No one should ever feel ashamed to reach out and ask for help, or even just to have someone to talk to. Talking really can help focus the awful thoughts in our heads and make them more manageable.

great to hear you have support around you wish i had seen that light earlier when my mum passed many many years ago

 

[Stuart_C]

Jesus Marc so sorry to hear that, deepest sympathy to you and your family.

 

[Fade and Die]

So very sorry for your loss Marc, my heart goes out to you.

 

[Swinglowandslow]

Sorry to read this. Sincerest condolences Kellfire.

 

[Fromtherough]

Sorry for your loss Kelfire, sincere condolences.

 

[richart]

Sounds like she was a very brave young lady. Very sad news Kellfire.

 

[Slime]

Sadly yes, twelve days ago. Her treatment hadn’t worked, her cancer had spread aggressively and she developed kidney failure as a result that couldn’t be reversed.

I'm so truly sorry.
I'm sure we're all here for you if you need us.

 

[Kellfire]

Sounds like she was a very brave young lady. Very sad news Kellfire.

She never stopped smiling through it all. I don’t know how she did it.

 

[pauljames87]

She never stopped smiling through it all. I don’t know how she did it.

She sounds a remarkable person , sorry for your loss

 

[drive4show]

One of the best things about this forum is that despite all the bickering people rally round to support each other when it matters. Thoughts are with you Kellfire at this difficult time.

 

[Maninblack4612]

Sadly yes, twelve days ago. Her treatment hadn’t worked, her cancer had spread aggressively and she developed kidney failure as a result that couldn’t be reversed.

Really sorry to hear that. Bad at the best of times but 100 times more difficult under current circumstances. Thinking of you.

 

[patricks148]

Sadly yes, twelve days ago. Her treatment hadn’t worked, her cancer had spread aggressively and she developed kidney failure as a result that couldn’t be reversed.

Sincere condolences, terrible news