Poor Service

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We went out to our favorite Indian restaurant last night. The food was, as usual, delicious, but the service was poor. They had different lads on waiting, and they were no up to their usual standards. I was, well very very annoyed. As the end I had to get up and walk to the bar to ask for the bill. That was the last straw. For the first time EVER I left no tip. I felt as guilty as hell, but still felt I did the right thing.
 
I'm currently in the US and say what you like about them, you do get good service in any restaurant.
 
Our local Chinese restaurant has the best food anywhere that we have ever tasted yet the absolute worst service you can ever experience / we laugh about it now when we go but the standard of food wins every time

As regards the Indian - write them a strong letter or email. I have done so many times before and ended up with a free meal out of it
 
so they had a few new waiters on and the service levels dropped a bit, the food was still great yet you got very very annoyed? me thinks you need to relax a little, cut them a little slack, if it happens again then a queit word with the manager, if its that much of a problem vote with your feet
 
Unless you were in a hurry or had another place to be, why get all het up about it? Enjoy the meal, chill, chat and have a nice night out.

It seems to be the norm in the UK that eating is something we do as fast as possible, it's almost as if eating is an inconvenience that we have to tolerate.
 
I'm currently in the US and say what you like about them, you do get good service in any restaurant.

The service is fantastic in America in all establishments.
You did the right thing not tipping, after all you had bad service. I feel it's like some organisations expect it i.e. Taxi drivers. They think it's standard just to tip for, well ordinary service
 
I've just walked out of a restaurant with some friends and our kids.

Sat down ordered drinks for every one. They bring them and my mates glass is dirty so they replace it.
I have a drink of my pint and order my food. later as the head clears I notice a piece of red onion floating in my glass. I went to the manager and told her to cancel our food order and explained why. Didn't even get an apology.
 
Went out with visiting friends for lunch at one of our usual places.
The waiters use an ipad to take your order and are generally pretty swish at all things.
Very young new member of staff took our order and really struggled with the ipad order.........took me all my control not to say..........FOR GOODNESS SAKE JUST GO AND GET A PENCIL AND PAD, but I didn't.:whoo:
 
If they were new staff, to the extent of a drop in service, they should have been better supervised. It'll take longer for them to learn, and at an obvious detriment to the business, if they're not mentored properly.

And don't feel guilty for being miffed, and not leaving a tip. But a quiet, half jokey, word to the boss might also have helped them too.
 
Why note politely complain? - if no-one says a thing how will they know and have the chance to improve. I find that, if the issue is raised considerately, the manager/owner is usually grateful for the feedback.

If they get into a strop then you can justifiably take your cash elsewhere.
 
I wholeheartedly agree with drdel. Really winds me up when people moan on social media/forums etc when they have had a service provided and not had the decency to mention it to the staff. Worst are the keyboard warriors on trip advisor who slate a restaurant and it turns out they didn't complain at the time. And it's not because we are too British to complain, I believe people think they will get compensation if they complain publicly
End of rant 😡
 
I wholeheartedly agree with drdel. Really winds me up when people moan on social media/forums etc when they have had a service provided and not had the decency to mention it to the staff. Worst are the keyboard warriors on trip advisor who slate a restaurant and it turns out they didn't complain at the time. And it's not because we are too British to complain, I believe people think they will get compensation if they complain publicly
End of rant 😡


My son in law is an hotelier with a very good Tripadvisor record.
He once had a seriously bad post from someone who apparently stayed on a day when the hotel rooms were closed for painting.
Despite his protestations Tripadvisor would not delete the complaint.
 
If they were new staff, to the extent of a drop in service, they should have been better supervised. It'll take longer for them to learn, and at an obvious detriment to the business, if they're not mentored properly.

And don't feel guilty for being miffed, and not leaving a tip. But a quiet, half jokey, word to the boss might also have helped them too.

However........I might have felt guilty if the young person was sacked because of my 'quiet word'.
 
Went for an Indian meal a few years ago, main course was a chicken dish. There were six pieces of diced chicken in the dish. It was abysmal. The sauce was gorgeous, but the chicken was nigh on absent. When the waiter asked if everything was ok I said the Chef was skimpy on the chicken. I was assured it would be ok next time I came.
A few months later, a differant chicken dish. The same as before, but all the dishes were light on meat. I told the guy exactly the same when he said is everything ok, he said " everything will be ok next time". I told him " it might well be but I won't be coming back, and it will be on tripadvisor". He was not best happy, but they are buying chicken breasts in for a quid a piece and skimping.
You do right to complain.
 
Why not politely complain?

A few years ago we were out for a meal with a few friends in our local pub/restaurant and there was something in my meal that I had specifically asked not to be put on so I sent it back. The correct meal then got sent out but by that time every one else had finished their meals but it wasn't really a problem.

A few days later HID and I were having a drink on the terrace at the same venue and the chef was also outside with a few of his mates. We heard him recounting a story about how he had put a load of chilli powder in a meal a few days earlier as the meal was returned and deliberately didn't send it back out until all the others in the group had finished. That amused the group for a moment but made me snap as I realised it was my meal they were talking about. Seconds later the chef was on the floor with my hands round his throat 'calmly' explaining to him that it was my meal that he had messed around with.

Anyway, I knew the owner pretty well and the chef was suspended without pay for a week and we received a refund for the cost of the meals for the whole party. We were offered free meals in the future but declined that offer and never ate there again while that chef was there. Also never sent food back again either.
 
When you look at the prices eating places ask for starters/desserts alone... Along with the hyper inflated prices of the wine list... You'd think they could afford to pay their staff properly without the need of relying on tips...
 
I've just walked out of a restaurant with some friends and our kids.

Sat down ordered drinks for every one. They bring them and my mates glass is dirty so they replace it.
I have a drink of my pint and order my food. later as the head clears I notice a piece of red onion floating in my glass. I went to the manager and told her to cancel our food order and explained why. Didn't even get an apology.

They serve beer in MacDonald's now? 😂
 
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