super hans
Assistant Pro
Hi Guys, new to the Forum and you all seem quite a friendly bunch so thought I might ask for some advice about my situation.
Let me set the scene first.
I'm 41 years old, have played golf for about the last 30 of them. Never been a member of a private club until my cousin convinced me to join his this year. I've never had an official handicap, but I figured I was about a 18 -21 handicapper.
We are fortunate in that we have two courses at our club. Big course is a par 70, wee one is par 68. Big course is fairly difficult and unforgiving, wee course is flat and spacious. I recently played in the first 3 medals to get my official handicap. My scores were 106 & 91 on the par 70 course, and an 84 on the par 68 course.
Now my 106 was a disaster, it was my first official medal and I was as nervous as hell. Loads of lost balls/out of bounds and duff shots. Followed that up with my 84 on the wee course which was probably one of the rounds of my life, every hole I just felt so confident I even got a birdie on the second hardest hole. I then had a 91 on the big course, which was pretty much an average round for me.
A few days later I was astonished when the club handicapper allocated me a handicap of 15.0 (astonished in the sense that I never had myself pegged in that kind of company). I'm well chuffed with my handicap and had a bit of pride in telling people i'm a 15 handicapper.
Now here's the rub, I just played my first medal with my new handicap and scored 93 (nett 78) on the par 68 course. I had two bad holes and the rest were average. I finished 53rd of 70, and I've gone up to 15.1
I'm not a bounty hunter, but I don't think I'm ever going to have a sniff of winning anything with the handicap I've been given. At 41 years old and off 15.1, I can only see my handicap going up instead of down, which is pretty demoralising.
I realise its only my first medal and anything could happen if I play another wonder round, so maybe I'm being a wee bit negative too soon.
So I'm asking if there's any advice you wisened veterans of club golfers could give me as I'm not sure if its the done thing to tell the handicapper "I should be off 18 instead of 15 etc etc" without sounding like I'm trying to scoop all the awards
cheers in advance
Let me set the scene first.
I'm 41 years old, have played golf for about the last 30 of them. Never been a member of a private club until my cousin convinced me to join his this year. I've never had an official handicap, but I figured I was about a 18 -21 handicapper.
We are fortunate in that we have two courses at our club. Big course is a par 70, wee one is par 68. Big course is fairly difficult and unforgiving, wee course is flat and spacious. I recently played in the first 3 medals to get my official handicap. My scores were 106 & 91 on the par 70 course, and an 84 on the par 68 course.
Now my 106 was a disaster, it was my first official medal and I was as nervous as hell. Loads of lost balls/out of bounds and duff shots. Followed that up with my 84 on the wee course which was probably one of the rounds of my life, every hole I just felt so confident I even got a birdie on the second hardest hole. I then had a 91 on the big course, which was pretty much an average round for me.
A few days later I was astonished when the club handicapper allocated me a handicap of 15.0 (astonished in the sense that I never had myself pegged in that kind of company). I'm well chuffed with my handicap and had a bit of pride in telling people i'm a 15 handicapper.
Now here's the rub, I just played my first medal with my new handicap and scored 93 (nett 78) on the par 68 course. I had two bad holes and the rest were average. I finished 53rd of 70, and I've gone up to 15.1
I'm not a bounty hunter, but I don't think I'm ever going to have a sniff of winning anything with the handicap I've been given. At 41 years old and off 15.1, I can only see my handicap going up instead of down, which is pretty demoralising.
I realise its only my first medal and anything could happen if I play another wonder round, so maybe I'm being a wee bit negative too soon.
So I'm asking if there's any advice you wisened veterans of club golfers could give me as I'm not sure if its the done thing to tell the handicapper "I should be off 18 instead of 15 etc etc" without sounding like I'm trying to scoop all the awards
cheers in advance