Golfing partner falls apart on the 1st

Paul77

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Last night, looking forward to my round. Tough day at work. Wiring up a new network cabinet and making sure I didn't cut my hands was a skill. I step up to the first with my newly bought Titleist 913 D3 and with a nice easy swing, I caught it well and landed through the trees on the right. I found it no bother. I tell my buddy where he needs to be to get a good angle in and he lines up left of where I said. He hits a 3 wood and somehow manages to hit a shot that just skitters left off the tee cutting grass for about 20 yards.

That was it. Game over, he was going home as he thumps the 3 wood into the tee box and nails the tee into the turf. I said just to hit another to get him off the tee and to watch the temper. He walks around for a bit then hits a nice we shot onto the fairway but leaving a long second up the hill.

The round fell apart thereafter, as he's still mentioning that duffer off the first, and we're on the 4th. I'm trying to tell him to shut up about it in a polite way but he's just getting angrier and angrier with every duffer that goes 20ft up the fairway. By the 6th he's throwing clubs back at his back.

On the 8th he pulls out about 4 Top Flytes and starts pitching them into the pond. My face is getting more red by the hole.

By the 9th he's for walking off and going home. Hates coming out after work blah blah blah despite him organising the round. By about the 10th he's not even carding his score and just started pulling out several balls and practising around the course while I played my round.

Anyway by the 15th I'm ready for drowning him in the pond because of his sheer lack of respect for the course. Thumping the 3 wood off the tee box like Happy Gilmour and cursing. At one point he duffed a PW plugging the ball into the ground where it lay. He then proceeds to drive his PW into the ground like an axe, with only half of the shaft above the ground. I'm furious by this point saying that we'll be getting thrown off if he keeps this up.

I shot an 85 but basically the guy ruined my round with his behaviour, and obviously, it'll be the last round until he can sort himself out, but I just wonder how many folk completely loose their composure during a round.

Also spending ten minutes to look for a Top Flyte on the 10th, was probably the worst thing about it.

Needless to say. I'll be playing on my own for a bit I think.
 
wow.......

Never heard a bad one like this....maybe he is having other troubles? Just been told he may be up for redundancy? Marital stress? Health worries?

Whilst there is no excuse for that behaviour, as we blokes know, we are not too good at talking about things...maybe give him a quick message & ask if everything is ok?
 
And that's a friendly bounce game is it, would hate to see the reaction if it actually meant something to handicap or getting a score in a comp!
 
The guy has some serious golfing anger management issues. I read the title and thought it was going to be a PP playing like a loon in a match and letting you down and you having to carry him. Shame as Ads749r needs any advice the forum can give him for this eventuality ahead of the Nike on Saturday (Hawkeye should be able to help!)

I think you need to sit the PP down now he's had a chance to calm down and tell him bluntly you're not prepared to put up with that kind of behaviour. Not only does it spoil your own game but were he to get spotted and you get turfed off the course it'll be your reputation thats tarnished as well as his. Tell him you won't play with him again until he sorts himself out and leave it at that and see what he does next and whether he bothers arranging another game
 
Yes, it was supposed to be a friendly bounce game. I just treat all rounds the same like it's the championship or something lol. I think he does too but doesn't posses the mental ability to keep calm and bounce back from a bad shot. I think he is getting grief at work. Still no excuse for that behaviour.
 
Probably the worst I've ever heard of. I'd never ever step foot on the course with him again after that, I'd rather play on my own.

Rough one chap, you managed a good score considering!
 
Our first round together we both shot 95. I then start getting lessons and I don't know, I just starting hitting the ball a lot better. I just got really afraid of hitting it well off the tee because I knew what was coming next. When I played before with a guy off 6 I always tried to match what he was doing and even if I hit a bad shot, I just got on with it.

I creamed an absolute cracker of a fade 3 wood from another fairway 210 yards off the deck. It fell just short of the green on the par 5 but I swear I had a smile on my face for about 3 holes. Not even a 'nice shot' Just a "You're a jammy B*****" I just said, well I think the lessons are helping.
 
If he was a close mate, I'd be ripping the pee out of him, winding him up like a cheap spinning top, just to add fuel to the fire, hell if he was going to be a knob, then why not have some fun with him, at the same time telling him to have some respect for the course and others

If he was a mate from the club only, I'd be telling him to calm down and have some respect for the course and others.

If he was someone who you were playing with just to have a partner, I'd give him an ultimatum, either act like a grown up of get off the course.
 
I've not known him long. He's the partner of the girl my good lady is best friends with. One of those, oh you like golf? so does my BF, why don't you get a round together, type thing. Before you know it, you're standing on the first tee lol.

I've never really had golfing mates to be honest. I just keep myself to myself most of the time but it's no wonder, if this is the way some carry on.
 
In his defense, he finished the round in a grump just walked off the 18th after holing out before I even landed on the green. We pretty much just played each hole as two entities really. The oddest round of golf ever. Needless to say I doubt I'll be entertaining anymore requests for a round. Last thing I need is to be laballed as the guy with the mental mate.
 
Paul77;1319678[B said:
]In his defense[/B], he finished the round in a grump just walked off the 18th after holing out before I even landed on the green. We pretty much just played each hole as two entities really. The oddest round of golf ever. Needless to say I doubt I'll be entertaining anymore requests for a round. Last thing I need is to be laballed as the guy with the mental mate.

Nothing really redeeming there.

What did you missus say?
 
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